ExpecteddJoin Date: 2010-03-26
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so I like this girl, and she likes me. this has been well known for a while. we act like a couple everywhere we go and enjoy eachothers' company a lot. a few weeks ago she told me that she didn't want to get in a relationship right now because she just got out of one with someone who really hurt her, and isn't emotionally ready to go out with someone again. everyone constantly asks if we're together, but we tell them no. She's told me she wants a relationship in the future, and so I asked if she saw us together in the future. she said yes, but that she needed time to think. she also said if i found someone else that she didn't want to lead me on, and to go for it, because "if i'm happy she's happy." I really want nothing else but to be together with her, as I think about her non-stop, 24/7. Should I wait? and if so, how long? good things come to those who wait, right? |
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XanthJoin Date: 2007-10-14
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I mean, it sounds like the only options you have are to wait or to move on. I'd say wait and see what happens. |
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Wolf_xJoin Date: 2014-10-15
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This is Roblox. Don't expect any sugar answers. Go to Yahoo or something.
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ExpecteddJoin Date: 2010-03-26
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@Xanth
That's what I plan on doing. She's gonna be in california all summer and she said she'll make her mind up after the trip. I just don't know how I'll deal with not seeing her for 2 months... |
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ExpecteddJoin Date: 2010-03-26
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@wolf
go back to C&G, OT is the most supportive subforum. |
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XanthJoin Date: 2007-10-14
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Honestly in that circumstance I couldn't do that because I have trust issues, but everyone is different, so if you think you can handle that then go for it. |
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sranacaJoin Date: 2015-08-06
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Waiting is good because you need to build a personal bond if you even want her to stay. she will move on to another so fast. if not definitely don't give her free things and gifts that sh dont work. She'd be gone with that stuff mayn. |
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ExpecteddJoin Date: 2010-03-26
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she's not one to hop in and out of relationships, xanth. I totally trust her to not get into any trouble in cali |
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ExpecteddJoin Date: 2010-03-26
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I only give her thoughtful, small gifts. like I got her a stuffed dog after we were walking around walmart for 2 hours together
it was $3 but she liked it |
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XanthJoin Date: 2007-10-14
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Okay, well then go for it. I've always been stuck with people who I either didn't stay with long enough to actually develop any sort of connection or they weren't willing to try to develop a sense of connection and trust. So I'm really scared by being betrayed in a relationship. It's the main reason I'm usually not in a relationship.
But as I said. Go with your guts, kid. |
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"Honestly in that circumstance I couldn't do that because I have trust issues"
This has nothing to do with "trust issues", my dear Internet acquaintance. In all actuality, you have begun to recognize the leftist propaganda of the "Western World."
Quite clearly, this female individual is a narcissist concerned with employing a subservient male schoolchild without having to provide any sort of compensation. A "one-way" trade of sorts.
It is very likely that she will indulge in pleasuring behavior with other males while the naive individual who created this thread cries over her absence. Actually, he has likely already purchased items for her. |
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sranacaJoin Date: 2015-08-06
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you don know i bet yo never done it |
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ExpecteddJoin Date: 2010-03-26
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but uh, thanks for the advice guys. |
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XanthJoin Date: 2007-10-14
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@Unintelligent_Anon
Wow someone took the red pill. Good luck ever finding love. |
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