Bump because I love this thread.
I PM'ed tmanlikesreya. It turned into a somewhat intelligent discussion. Please note that I don't know Snaili IRL, I was making stuff up most of the time. Read from top to bottom.
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ME: Please stop cyber-bullying Snaili. She is really upset over it. I may get the police involved if this continues.
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tmanlikesereya: Dude, first of all, bully is when someone does something mean more than once. I have only messaged this girl once. Also who gives you any right to be involved. She is my sister and I am sure you'd help out your sibling too.
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ME: Snaili is deeply hurt by your constant harassment and bullying. I recommend you stop. Snaili is my BFF 4 EVA so I'm involving myself. [INVOLVING INTENSIFIES]
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tmanlikesreya: Your bff caused all this and harassment? I messaged her once .. your bff is cyber bulling my sister, and im meant to watch
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ME: What has Snaili done? Please provide proof.
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tmanlikesreya: You want proof, here's ya proof.
Some things were on the game, so unable to screen shot but I have managed to get some horrid messages that your "BFF" has sent my sister.
http://gyazo(DOT)com/d05e96f7a32d44e37b195a89d9a1b48e
http://gyazo(DOT)com/47bb8c9ef968bbeca42cec3c5aff3df3
http://gyazo(DOT)com/c855b6b0c5a5edc2cb722c52d477d4ed
http://gyazo(DOT)com/43082d308ab7b26f101c0ec9b8f51523
Now are you convinced your friend is innocent and is not an abuser?
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ME: Those messages are actually in reply to you PM'ing her about your sister and telling her you'll get the police involved.
Your sister claims that Snaili is stalking and harassed her, when in truth she never made contact with your sister outside of the first game they played together.
The phrase, 'He is not just yours. Stop trying to always be with him, he has friends and he has every right to be with his as you do yours.', seems to indicate that either you or your sister have a crush on Snaili's friend and are very possessive over him for some reason.
Obviously, you should take your own advice, he has every right to be with his friends as you do yours.
If anything, you are the one bullying and harassing Snaili for wanting to be with her friend.
To be perfectly honest, I wouldn't be surprised if you labelled me as a bully, hater and harasser after sending this PM.
Of course, I don't know if Snaili is telling lies, or if your sister is telling the truth. Personally, I think your sister is lying, but who am I to decide. I'm just typing out my opinion.
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tmanlikesreya: Fair enough, and to be fair, I think your a decent person.
I do not fancy her friend, to be honest I hardly know him. And those aren't the messages she's sent to me, their messages she sent to Funnybunny.
Anyway, bullying is when people offend you in ways you don't like continuously, I've messaged her once, so harassing is actually out of the picture.
I know about "my saying" and the way your using it is out of context or is misunderstood because what has that got anything to do with this situation including me.. Yeah Your Snaili has every right to join a game with her friends but being immature and telling my sister to commit is not actually a nice thing to say to anyone. (In case you don't know where I got the committing thing from heres the proof: http://gyazo(dot)com/43082d308ab7b26f101c0ec9b8f51523)
I'm sorry but telling someone to kill themselves is horrid even if they hate each other. What would you do if Funnybunny actually commited? Your friend would actually get arrested for manslaughter or murder. So carry on with all ya come backs because at the end of the day, your so called friend is in the wrong.
Yea, my sister could be also lying but from all the messages I've read, I have used evidence I know she's not lying as I've looked myself.
This is my opinion.
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In conclusion, I think tmanlikesreya is a decent person, but is very protective of her sister. If OP is telling the truth, then tmanlikesreya's sister is a little overly-sensitive. |