Confession about my past

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#168040689Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:29 AM GMT

Back in elementary school a girl had a crush on me, but I didn't like her back so I just ignored her. Now, she's a Ford Model living in New York.

123yonnd

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#168040770Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:29 AM GMT

it's elementary school. wouldn't of done anything anyway

bookface6

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#168040971Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:32 AM GMT

I had my first GF in 5th grade. I never talked to her when we dated. I broke up with her 3 days later. Apparently she cried really hard and she didn't come to school the next day.

NOONEALT

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#168041008Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:32 AM GMT

i want a gf :(

Chriz13

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#168041127Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:33 AM GMT

Honestly, her face really isn't that attractive without a ton of makeup, but she's done real well. My ex has a not so secret crush on her.

alejandroJUGO

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#168041164Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:34 AM GMT

I had my first girlfriend two years ago and we dated for a week, I dumped her (in a really rude way) and she told everyone she dumped me lol

NOONEALT

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#168041198Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:34 AM GMT

how did u dump her?

alejandroJUGO

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#168041255Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:34 AM GMT

i just said "we're over" LMAO never do that

NOONEALT

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#168041283Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:35 AM GMT

wow how was it having a gf?

vikingsfan397

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#168041356Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:35 AM GMT

a girl in 3rd grade had a crush on me, and i ignored her now shes a total brat "I swear, if something bad happens to my friends, I'll rip every tooth out of that shark and make it into the most beautiful necklace you've ever seen."

Chriz13

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#168041405Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:36 AM GMT

I made a mistake when I dumped a girl by lying. It was just before the beginning of senior year and I told the girl that I was afraid of getting attached when I was about to leave for college, when in reality I had lost interest. About 2 months later I started dating a different girl (we lasted 4 months)

alejandroJUGO

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#168041422Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:36 AM GMT

idk noone, cant remember man

NOONEALT

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#168041437Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:36 AM GMT

privatezackv3

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#168041482Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:37 AM GMT

flaunt that jewish $$$$$$$ you'll get a gf noone

bookface6

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#168041536Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:37 AM GMT

how i broke up with her: i got my friend to say "heres a magic trick: your single!" because he really wanted to do it and i didnt really care she didnt believe him so i had to do it i dont even really consider her my first gf due to the fact that we never did anything lol not even talk

NOONEALT

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#168041565Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:37 AM GMT

thanks, i hope i do soon.

Chriz13

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#168042373Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:45 AM GMT

Here's my advice, your end goal shouldn't be just to get a gf, because if that's your frame of mind it'll never end well. Either you'll be horrendously unsuccessful and look like an idiot, or you'll end up with someone for all the wrong reasons. Flirting without being creepy is a hard skill to learn, but you can do it, and make sure you like the girl, or at least have the potential to like her before you ask her out. If you're dead set on just getting a gf, my advice is this. Increase the number of girls who you're friends with. The end goal to date has to exist with none of them, just be kind to them and have a personality, noone likes a bump on a log. Then, from those friends, branch out, meet new people, potential partners, if you were hanging out with friend A and you meet girl B, messaging them on FB later won't be too weird. Look out for signs that they're not interested, but if they seem like they are, ask to go eat somewhere or something, if you have a set place you want to go to it'll be more natural for them. Don't say "would you like to hang out sometime" be like "hey, I kinda want to try this new Mexican place, wanna go?"

bookface6

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#168042606Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:48 AM GMT

Also don't feel like you need one, and don't be desperate. They are much more enjoyable when both people are happy and it's for more than just saying "i have a gf"

Chriz13

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#168043016Sunday, July 19, 2015 3:52 AM GMT

Another tip, just because I feel like you may need it. Don't feel like you have to know the person too well before asking them out. Girls aren't against the idea of dating for fun, and if you ask them early they may be more likely to say yes. The important thing to do is not to put any pressure on them when you do it. Confessing a long term crush is a bad idea because they feel overwhelmed at first. Indicate that you're slightly interested in them and they'll feel a lot more comfortable with it because they think that it's an even relationship, rather than one person being a lot more invested than the other.