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i'm persistent, i guess.
ok so to all the people who looked at my older posts, yes im making an update. been holding this back for a while cuz i didn't feel like i'd have to post on c&g again.
so basically this girl from my business class is my friend and i kind of wanna get closer to her and stuff, i wanted to get her # and stuff (i did, finally) and i wanted to do things w/ her over the summer.
10 days go by, and I send a triple msg on FB to her saying I was curious about her business mark, and she responded within 10 minutes. (i went off peer pressure and advice to send a third msg, surprised it worked)
we started a convo, and in the middle of it i asked for her # and she asked me why, i told her because i wanted to keep in touch w/ her, and i'd have nothing to do after my summer program so i'd wanna text and stuff. (she was clearly trying to play hard to get lol) so eventually she gives me it.
i go on and text her, no response. i try to start a convo, no response. it has been a week since i texted her and i haven't even gotten a response yet.
i finally go on FB and ask her if she's alright cuz i didn't rly see her around much, no response. msg not even seen.
honestly do you think i should continue to try, or do you think she's probably creeped out by me? I honestly don't see why she'd be creeped out with me as we talked almost daily in business, and she eventually saw her msg and responded to me and we had a good conversation.
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Sounds like she just doesn't get on much idk |
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LagHitsJoin Date: 2013-06-19
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wait for a response
if she doesn't respond in the next few days of you sending another message, leave it |
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There are those types of girls... That really just are annoying and don't reply.
Because they just don't.
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She honestly doesn't get on very much it seems, I'll see her around 3-4 times a day. Usually for less than 20 minutes overall in one day.
But I've seen her in business, she was glued to her phone at one point.
She has summer school, so I'd understand if it takes her a while to respond.. but a week? I feel like she's purposely ignoring me for no reason.
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Yeah
I dislike playing the waiting game, but I've been playing the waiting game with her for quite a long time now.
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Honestly I don't think I'm gonna be texting her anymore unless she finally decides to text back.
I really hate it when people don't respond to my messages, ESPECIALLY if I want to talk that person.
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VuyyJoin Date: 2013-09-15
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find her instagram and see if shes been posting, or ask friends if shes ok |
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I did find her IG
I've been pending to follow her for the past 5 days
She has posted a new profile picture once, but that's it. She hasn't accepted ANY follow requests though.
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SquaredzJoin Date: 2014-04-26
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Talking to you and giving you their # doesn't constitute flirting
It's called being polite
Maybe you asked her so many times she gave in and gave you the number
However she doesn't wish to respond bc she wants nothing to come of it
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KilluahhJoin Date: 2011-10-02
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yes she's one of those girls.
very confusing type. |
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SquaredzJoin Date: 2014-04-26
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@mindless you are literally getting to creepy stalker stage
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@time
that's what I was thinking
I only asked her once for her #, she asked "why" and I told her why and she gave me it.
She's also done some things in business around me, like pinching my neck in a "friendly" way and smiling and saying "nothing" when I ask what that is, blushed a couple of times while doing stuff w/ me (example: her helping me w/ something) and laughed at even my crappy business jokes and stared/smiled at me to the point where my friend went up to me and said "Hey this girl keeps looking at you and smiling, she also laughs when you make jokes a lot" but I don't know if her intentions were to flirt.
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SquaredzJoin Date: 2014-04-26
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Your persistency probably comes off as creepy
She probably only gave u her number bc she was persistent
only talks to u bc shes nice and polite
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KilluahhJoin Date: 2011-10-02
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you're best hope is to come out straight and ask her whats her deal man |
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SquaredzJoin Date: 2014-04-26
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Maybe she's going through something personal
Or just finds you funny
or maybe she's waiting for something to happen
idk like you make a move in person
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Adding someone on social media doesn't really mean it's stalker level, and when I saw she posted a new profile picture it was because I was looking for something and I went through my friends follower list and saw a different pic on her.
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I can't make a move in person for over a month still =/
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VorsaiJoin Date: 2011-01-09
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Probably just wait it out. |
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SquaredzJoin Date: 2014-04-26
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Has she put X's after the messages she's sent you? More than 1 ofc
Maybe she's just a flirty person but doesn't intend to be
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Nah she doesn't do that
I mean in terms of texting she was acting kinda weirdish and was like "Ikkk!!" and used a lot of "enthusiasm" while texting via FB.
I think my best bet is to wait it out now, because if I do anything else I'm even gonna consider myself as a creep.
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HeadmikiJoin Date: 2011-02-20
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girls in general
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