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#150847919Monday, December 01, 2014 1:28 AM GMT

so me and a friend know this girl and she's basically an overweight POS who got mad at my friend and ignored him to talk to me. he was feeling really down so i did what any true homie would do and I betrayed her and made her look stupid. so my homie was bored and I decided it would be fun to screw her over for a third time, so I write out a bunch of really nice lines and gave him a persona I wake up today, to him saying "Can we just forget about back stabbing her" Despite the fact that I back stabbed her in his sake, and that I wrote those lines with me as the villain So now I'm pretty screwed and he's telling me to let it all play out and that he's sorry What do I do

SixLimbs

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#150847998Monday, December 01, 2014 1:28 AM GMT

they're also talking now and I'm getting replaced as the video game friend

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#150848245Monday, December 01, 2014 1:31 AM GMT

I'd suggest that you simply apologize for your previous behavior and express your opinion to them regarding the events that occurred.

SixLimbs

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#150848287Monday, December 01, 2014 1:32 AM GMT

now they're ODing too, and he's telling me about how him being friends like that is justified

SixLimbs

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#150848374Monday, December 01, 2014 1:33 AM GMT

There is no them, she hates me to a point where she wont even talk to me and he is always talking about her. I feel really betrayed and I know that no matter what happens I come out looking like the bad guy.

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#150848464Monday, December 01, 2014 1:34 AM GMT

"now they're ODing too, and he's telling me about how him being friends like that is justified" "Online-Dating" is prohibited in the "Roblox Community Guidelines". I would suggest that you report your "Friends" and allow the moderators to handle the problem in correlation with apologizing. \ You don't need to make yourself have more guilt than necessary as your "Friend" also participated.

SixLimbs

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#150848531Monday, December 01, 2014 1:34 AM GMT

It isn't over roblox, it's over skype. This guy was supposed to be my best friend and now I feel like he made an amateur mistake and completely back stabbed me.

AnonyAnonymous

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#150848913Monday, December 01, 2014 1:38 AM GMT

Then don't make yourself suffer any further guilt. If you apologize and the person doesn't want to accept it, It's their decision and you simply cannot control their actions. I would personally consider your relationship with your "Friend" as opportunistic rather than platonic as it's evident that he's concerned with benefiting from your mistakes. I'm going to suggest that you simply just remain calm and if your "Friend" disregards your Point-Of-View despite genuine and open-minded attempts, It's likely best to just simply end the relationship altogether.

SixLimbs

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#150849448Monday, December 01, 2014 1:44 AM GMT

I haven't apologized though, I didn't think I did anything bad to him. Sure I was mean to her, but it was for his sake because he seemed like he was down. And now that the positions have flipped, the same isn't being returned. He's over there with her, talking about all this great stuff while I deal with the fact that my best friend just betrayed me for the girl I betrayed for him. She hates me, and all I get is a thank you for letting things play out while I practically died for his sins to pave the way for all this. He has a short memory, and I wonder why I'm even his friend when I've been betraying friends of 2 years + for someone who can't resist a banshee wail for a friend. She's another story entirely, and after the stuff she's done I don't feel like an apology is in order.

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#150850104Monday, December 01, 2014 1:51 AM GMT

Let this sequence of unfortunate events act as a valuable lesson, It's not worth humiliating a friend of yours just to appease another individual. Accept the fact that contributed to the problem and simply apologize to the person that you "betrayed", It's a stepping stone in building the figurative "Stairs-Of-Friendship".