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cooldog321
#181992424Tuesday, January 19, 2016 1:29 PM GMT

I know this is the wrong place to ask, but you guys have always been my first line of defence. I've been in recovery from anorexia since November, but in between that time my weight has wobbled between 46 and 50kg, and now it's back to what it was when everything started. My only real motivation is the people who care about me, they want to see me gain weight and they'll suffer until I do, it's really the only thing that keeps me going, because the other part of me doesn't want it. The part of me that wants health isn't there, it doesn't shock me to hear that my blood pressure is too low, or that my heart is struggling. If I can finish a meal without worming my way out of calories or leave the bathroom without sneaking in exercise then it feels like a sin. I'm lucky that my family are there, and that the support team are strict enough to drown out that part of me, but a lot of the time it doesn't work. I'm at risk of going back into hospital by next week, what normally helps you guys stay positive and keep distracted?
Coronatus
#181992533Tuesday, January 19, 2016 1:33 PM GMT

Look up "bikinis" on google images
Sambergers
#181992664Tuesday, January 19, 2016 1:39 PM GMT

music some stuff you might like is Whitewoods - Beachwalk the entire album CLPPNG by clipping. and Radio Mirror Park from GTAV's entire tracklist a video game a day keeps the ladies away | http://www.roblox.com/TRIGGERED-item?id=343537481 | http://www.roblox.com/SAVAGE-item?id=343939688
Vineshroom
#181992669Tuesday, January 19, 2016 1:39 PM GMT

Go eat a ton of stuff and tell yourself to quit throwing it up. I'm not anorexic, but my ADHD meds make me not want to eat for 12 hours a day, and this seems to work even when I don't feel like eating (I'm very skinny for my height, only 110 lbs and 5'7) Just eat. Tell your brain that you are hungry and shove some Baconators down your throat. Works every time.
ShaneSchofield
#181992687Tuesday, January 19, 2016 1:40 PM GMT

this really sounds like something only a professional can help you with. i can list things that i do to try and keep myself motivated and focus on what needs to be accomplished, but at the end of the day, this "part of you" that doesnt want to get healthy isnt you at all. that sounds a lot like your disorder talking. ive never suffered from or known anyone whos suffered from an eating disorder, so i really cant give you any proper advice, even though id love to help out.(i dont think many other oters will be in a position to do so either) just try and remember its not you who doesnt want to be healthy, its the disorder itself thats taking that toll on you. you are doing everything you can to help and better yourself. the best thing you can do is get as much professional advice as possible, surround yourself with the people who love and care for you and tackle it together. your friends and family should be the only motivation you need. wish you all the best.
Gynx
#181992706Tuesday, January 19, 2016 1:41 PM GMT

you do realize it's not easy as it sounds for these kind of people
Gynx
#181992723Tuesday, January 19, 2016 1:41 PM GMT

i awas replying to vineshroom

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