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kept together by a fantasy of love
plus you never know if it'll truly work out until ya get there
eh, maybe someday
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AetricityJoin Date: 2012-03-29
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Why don't you walk the treacherous journey to the other one's house, or swim there if required? |
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it never works kids listen to uncle mill
checkm9 | rip lelforumingalt ,add 13k posts |
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they never work
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X2WH8mHJnhM |
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ReplacedJoin Date: 2009-07-15
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eh not really
id much rather have a long distance relationship since i find it difficult to talk to people and id feel less awkward when meeting up with them |
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They can work because I know people it worked for. You just need trust in the other person ig. |
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AetricityJoin Date: 2012-03-29
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Replaced makes a good point, honestly. It would be a lot easier to have a long distance relationship in that sense, but in other ways, it also loses a sense of trust, in a way, and furthermore it really takes a lot way from a relationship. I've never been in one myself, but I can see it ending up that way in an LDR. |
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"You just need trust in the other person ig."
ig? ...instagram???
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RaddyoJoin Date: 2008-06-10
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Never works out.
Unless you visit your girl every month, spending flight tickets just to visit her.
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ig - i guess.
Not instagram dude ._. |
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DrForceJoin Date: 2013-09-29
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it only really ends up sucking if it hits a bump
like not sure what to do anymore
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I am kept apart by a father..
~The number zero is a word~ |
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I'm in one rn
My girl and I have met 3 times already
It's going good
She's gonna be here for two weeks in April
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Recently I've been talking to this one girl that lives all the on the opposite side of the country. We seem to be totally into each other, but like I said, we're bound together by the fantasy of this "love." Never met for real, only brought together by our words.
Now, I'm not going to lie to myself about this, I know there's a good chance it just won't work out for one reason or another. Perhaps everything about this is all a big lie (that would be a damn good lie in this case), or someone else catches this girl's interests that's more immediately accessible, or some other reason. I'm not going to go into an emotional fit if this ends, but at the same time, I'm really hopeful about this because we really seem to connect. Keyword: Seem. We work out awesome in this fantasy we put ourselves in but have no idea of knowing if it'll work out for real. I really don't want to risk anything too big, but I want this to happen.
Thankfully I have some family that lives really near where this girl lives so I could likely meet hey someday, someday soon perhaps.
"ig - i guess."
Never seen that abbreviation in my life.
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DrForceJoin Date: 2013-09-29
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If you do actually think it'll end by some reason, Try to have the best experience with it.
Trust me I've done that before and I made a relationship go at least a month longer then it should of.
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hannalpsJoin Date: 2012-11-10
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im gonna walk to california to meet my friend aaaaaaaaa
dem pointy nose :^) |
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"If you do actually think it'll end by some reason, Try to have the best experience with it.
Trust me I've done that before and I made a relationship go at least a month longer then it should of."
Hm? What are you talking about? If a relationship seems like it's ending, then just end it. If either side isn't into it, then there's no reason to keep the love on life support. Pull the plug. It's bad to drain every last drop of love out of yourself or your partner.
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DrForceJoin Date: 2013-09-29
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"Hm? What are you talking about? If a relationship seems like it's ending, then just end it. If either side isn't into it, then there's no reason to keep the love on life support. Pull the plug. It's bad to drain every last drop of love out of yourself or your partner."
I meant since you said where it'll probably end with a problem, you should try to experience everything you can in the relationship before this said problem rises.
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"I meant since you said where it'll probably end with a problem, you should try to experience everything you can in the relationship before this said problem rises."
Experience? I'm not doing this to "experience" it, it's because I care about this person and want both of us to be happy. It goes a lot deeper than that.
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DrForceJoin Date: 2013-09-29
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"Experience? I'm not doing this to "experience" it, it's because I care about this person and want both of us to be happy. It goes a lot deeper than that."
Sorry, I'm bad with phrasing.
I meant have as much fun with this person, but if you know at this point that where both parties don't like each other, I'm not sure where to help.
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I'd rather have a meaningful long-distance relationship than a meaningless fling.
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ReplacedJoin Date: 2009-07-15
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relationships are built on trust and you don't even trust her enough to even stick by you
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"relationships are built on trust and you don't even trust her enough to even stick by you"
I guess I wasn't exactly clear in the post.
I do trust her actually, and I believe she trusts me. I just hope it's all legitimate, as I've heard countless "horror stories" about relationships like this that just don't work out.
Sure, say I'm not trusting her, but I'm not being black and white about this. I do trust her, a lot actually, but at the same time I'm weary because I don't know what's going on on her end, and if not for this distance gap is trust her 100%. I guess I'm just fearing the worst and I should push it out of my mind, but if I do that others will yell at me that I shouldn't put 100% trust on this long distance things.
Gah, now I've confused myself. I just want us to meet so I don't have to think about any of this. |
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