It depends on what kind of bully we are talking about here.
If he's that annoying kid that mocks you, spills your drinks, throws stuff at you, and is just generally irritating...
Tell this kid that he's a loser who's only satisfaction in life is to inconvenience people who have way more important things to do than interact with him, just like his parents.
If that speech or something along those lines does not either get him to back way off, or makes him really mad, than idk he must TRULY be a no l##e####e##### I would just try harder or again to make him realize you want nothing to do with him.
If he does back off, good.
If he gets really mad, also good, because then if he storms off that's fine, or if he attacks you, once again, simply demolish him, or at the very least don't get ###t####
###Plus he's probably going to get in a LOT of trouble if he brings this to an adult, you might too, but you have a legitimate excuse and he absolutely doesn't.
Now, if it's the SECOND kind of bully, you have to approach this very differently.
The second kind are those tough or mouthy guys that walk around with 2-4 other guys with few brain cells and no friends.
They will probably be the ones who smack you on the back of the head, or clap your shoulder, or give yo###e###illies.
They will be a lot BOLDER with how they pick on you, though they are much more rare than the first type of bully.
These guys are NOT guys you want to get into a fight with because they probably are LOOKING for one.
Only#### ###deal with those bullies are one of these ways.
A: Get an adult to watch them or you, these guys will scatter from parental supervision.
B: Prove to them somehow you are cool, or earn their respect, this does not mean doing their homework, if you seem like a cool guy they will let you into their group.
However I would NOT suggest this plan since they will use something called "Satellite bullying" to just use you to pick on your brother, so that solution doesn't work here.
C: If you are VERY confident in your combat skills, face their actions with a somber demeanor, do not show the slightest sign of emotion and speak only in veiled threats.
That will either cause them to think twice about messing with you, or they will probably try to ring around you and pick on you.
If you're smart about it you can probably get some kind of confrontation going if they want that, and of course as I said if you're competent you will probably be fine, unless they have knives, if they have knives run away.
That's all the me###ds I know to deal with bullying, aside from switching cools or just staying away from them. And lets be honest those plans are just bandaid remedies and won't actually teach you anything about how to deal with these people.
Good luck with that and if you have any questions I'm curious to see your thoughts. |